• chetradley@lemmy.world
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      8 months ago

      The DSM used to classify homosexuality as a mental illness. Are you saying it was until they changed it?

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        8 months ago

        They have published new versions over the years. They’re on version 5 by now. Plenty of things have changed.

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          8 months ago

          The argument is that you shouldn’t base your position of acceptance on whatever the DSM says because they’re demonstrably very fallible, but rather you should use your own arguments instead.

  • IBSshitposter@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    8 months ago

    dawg you can be trans for funsies, gender can eat my entire ass. everyone is better off when we aren’t gender-policing every goddam thing

  • Kalkaline @leminal.space
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    8 months ago

    Ultimately it’s none of my business. It’s between the trans person and their doctor, as long as they’re following best practices and the plan of care is agreed to by the patient and the doctor, I’m good. I don’t pretend to know better than someone living that reality. I wish them well and hope their transition goes well and they can find happiness in their body.

    • Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      …they can find happiness in their body.

      See I think that’s the most important part and you hit the nail on the head. I transitioned 20 years ago and it was a lot different then. Nowadays everyone has the freedom to just be themselves, and people are getting too hung up on labels and pronouns. If everyone just pursued their own happiness and comfort in their own body, while ignoring the expectations put upon them by social media and society, they’d be a lot happier.

      It’s like these younger folks feel like there’s a check list of things they need to do to “be trans”. My brother in Christ just be yourself, and if you wanna call yourself trans in the process then more power to you. There’s no rules to happiness beyond not hurting anyone else.

      Tl;Dr “An ye harm none, do what ye will.”