Something I’ve always wondered is what kind of women were in the lives of incel men when they were young. Did they have a bad relationship with their mother? Did they lack sisters or other female family members? Or is their family situation irrelevant? Maybe some particular situation in their early years caused them to develop a complex around women?

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      1 year ago

      It can be, but I’ve met some decent looking guys who were incels. I think most I’ve seen tend to initially put off women because before full blown incel they already have a warped perception of women. Some I’ve seen are also just downright narcissistic. It can be a lot of different things.

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        1 year ago

        I see, I thought appearance is the biggest factor. Maybe it's just local thing around me.

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      1 year ago

      … Did you just ignore their entire paragraph where they included reasons these guys have been rejected?