Plus usually when someone pisses me off in traffic, my thought is “hope this guy dies” and not “hope that guy gets raped”— what kind of psycho makes rape threats ---- wait, nevermind.

You can make both kinds of jokes, but you have to know your audience. Making murder jokes in front of a grieving family might not be the smartest move, same as joking about rape.

Also, I guess sexual assault victims are oftentimes secretive about it and can (even though it’s not right) feel ashamed about it