• SSJMarx@lemm.ee
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    4 months ago

    Don’t be dense. The poster above me was using “cocksucker” as an insult, which is a go-to homophobic insult, and I called it out. There’s no nuance or subtlety or dictionary lawyering that perfectly clearly expressed sentiment into being anything other than what it is.

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      4 months ago

      I used sucking the cock of dictators as an insult. Classic hexbear pos to remove all context to find some ground to shakily stand on.

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      4 months ago

      Yes, but is there anything in what I said that you actually disagree with?

      See, I think we agree, it’s just that I’m being more light hearted about it than you are. Good cop, bad cop, that sort of thing. You’re all “you’re nasty homophobe!” and I’m all “heyy, man, you should appreciate the blow jobs, not hate on them! But blow jobs are not for dictators.”

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        4 months ago

        “it’s just a joke! i’m just joking! you need to lighten up!”

        I never actually called you or anybody else a nasty homophobe, I called out a single comment for expressing a casual homophobic sentiment.

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          4 months ago

          I think I’m frustrating you by being too flippant, and I didn’t mean to, so sorry about that.

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          4 months ago

          You implied the person was being casually homophobic. If that’s not calling someone a homophobe idk what is. At least have the nerve to own it when you say it not backpeddle.