Hexbear2 [any]

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Cake day: March 15th, 2021
  • Hexbear2 [any]@hexbear.nettoAsklemmy@lemmy.ml•Advice on helping a loved one through alcoholism?English
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    8 months ago

    I have experience with alcoholics in the family and haven’t drank more than a handful of drinks in the last 5 years, because I don’t want to go down that road, but the things you need to ask yourself are: Are you prepared to have her never changed and eventually drink herself to death? Are you prepared for her behavior to get even worse over the years towards you and herself? Are you prepared for the drinking associated health complications, she won’t be able to function as an adult for her last 5-10 years. Are you prepared to deal with potential DUIs, job losses, and other alcohol related complications? Are you prepared to give up your life to deal with her situation?

    If the answer is no, you need to think about your future with her. You can’t help her through this one.

  • Hexbear2 [any]@hexbear.nettoAsklemmy@lemmy.ml•What silly inconvinient stuff would you outlaw if you could?English
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    9 months ago

    BJs is a club, it's in terms of the membership. Same with SAMs, and Costco.

    On the other hand, other stores can't detain you, it's not covered under "shop keepers privilege". Watch you-tube on shop keepers privilege if you want to learn the laws around that. Also be careful, stores can and will legally evict you (some stores are petty as fuck like that) and then if you go there, you're trespassing and can be arrested. It's generally legal to deny a member of the public access to your store for any reason, as long as it's not a prohibited reason under federal discrimination laws.