I think the phrasing is the problem. This comes off as overly negative. If you say something more along the lines of “I am not yet ready to have kids, so I’d rather not be with someone who has them. I like women who are in good shape, and I am looking for a long term relationship.” You come off as way less of an incel.
If people start developing a new more promising kind of “ai”, we can talk about it ðen. For now, ð þing we call “AI” sucks and just steals.