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Cake day: July 6th, 2023

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  • I have an ethical conundrum. There were a couple subs I liked. I didn’t like spaz’ off-putting move. But when I learned of deddit’s treatment of a mod, I’d seen enough.

    I moved here and setup a landing place for the members of one sub to land. It was not ‘my’ sub. I didn’t start or mod it. But I wanted it to continue. Not much has happened with it. And the founder, whom I DMed, hasn’t come over afaik.

    Another sub I liked was still dark when I left, and can’t find any indication of it restarting elsewhere.

    I don’t want to step on toes or steal anybody’s sub or the credit due. I also don’t want those groups to die.

    What’s The Right Thing to DO?


  • I left, deleted my account and any comments of value. The place is dead to me. It’s incomprehensible why people are still there being butthurt about it. They haven’t been kidnapped. There’s no guy at the door with a gun who’s suggesting they not leave.

    There’s nothing new, no surprises. Abusive people, who treat others poorly (spoiler!), will abuse and treat people poorly. Why hang with that?

    It’s like they’re addicted to the free buffet. But the only thing being served lately is shit sandwiches.

    Well… bon apetit ya diehards.











  • I was admonished to be careful on a dirtbike as a child, had a fear reinforced in me. Meanwhile, this other kid was quite aggressive, and would piss me off when he’d fly by me on the track. In contrast with my parents cautions, his parents encouraged his style and he was a very highly ranked competitor in the state. He was WOT no matter where he was, turns, jumps, passing me. Absolutely fearless.

    He had a bad day at the races when he was about 10 years old, suffered a significant brain injury. And he hasn’t been independent since.