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Cake day: July 5th, 2023

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  • As a 50 year old skater with a broken wrist, you will for sure break something.

    Still skate a few times a week, though far more mellow than in my teens and twenties. Mostly just carving the park or some mini ramp.

    I always wanted to get into wake boarding, but there was never a boat around etc.

    Now with my knee injuries it’s too late to learn something new.

    However, I’m pretty sure I could handle surfing.

    The electric one wheel boards are a lot of fun, and are easier than a skateboard, but pad up and helmet for sure.


  • If you are going to limit yourself to what your romantic partner is interested in, I suppose it could work, but feels very confined.

    I have many hobbies and interests not shared in full by any romantic partner I’ve ever had, though there have been some notable exceptions.

    One woman I dated for many years rode motorcycles and snowboards.

    Another shared my interest in Fromsoft video games.

    I doubt anyone I would seriously date at 50 is going to share my passion for skateboarding, though I’d love to be proven wrong on that one.

    I don’t have many close friends, and only two live within visiting distance. Most have spread across the country. We stay in touch with a phone call every month or two, catching up, sharing stories, discussing common interests. The ones in town I’ll see maybe once a month as well, for dinner, drinks, or a motorcycle ride.

    They all bring ideas and experiences into my life I wouldn’t otherwise have, and by maintaining friendships with a wide variety in background and education, it keeps me from becoming too narrow minded or stunted.

    Could I live my life without my friends? Sure. Would I want to? Absolutely not.