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Cake day: July 5th, 2023

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  • As far as why not rev while riding, the RPM required for slow technical control, me getting off the patio, across the yard, and through the fence, on the Harley is way too precise to try and also manage blipping the engine to keep it running.

    As far as oil and tuning, it has the right oil, and it has a custom ECU that handles all the tuning automatically based on how I ride.

    One of the mufflers did fall off a few years ago, and to maintain symmetry I removed the other one.

    Maybe that’s why the bike is loud as fuck








  • Nothing unusual about it. As others suggested, take time to make the place feel yours, through decorating, routine, etc.

    This is just something that takes a bit of time, especially since it is your first time in a new home without your family.

    My first living away from home was a college dorm, and it did take a few weeks for it to feel like mine.

    Even now at 50 moving into a new place feels odd for a bit.



  • As a 50 year old skater with a broken wrist, you will for sure break something.

    Still skate a few times a week, though far more mellow than in my teens and twenties. Mostly just carving the park or some mini ramp.

    I always wanted to get into wake boarding, but there was never a boat around etc.

    Now with my knee injuries it’s too late to learn something new.

    However, I’m pretty sure I could handle surfing.

    The electric one wheel boards are a lot of fun, and are easier than a skateboard, but pad up and helmet for sure.


  • If you are going to limit yourself to what your romantic partner is interested in, I suppose it could work, but feels very confined.

    I have many hobbies and interests not shared in full by any romantic partner I’ve ever had, though there have been some notable exceptions.

    One woman I dated for many years rode motorcycles and snowboards.

    Another shared my interest in Fromsoft video games.

    I doubt anyone I would seriously date at 50 is going to share my passion for skateboarding, though I’d love to be proven wrong on that one.

    I don’t have many close friends, and only two live within visiting distance. Most have spread across the country. We stay in touch with a phone call every month or two, catching up, sharing stories, discussing common interests. The ones in town I’ll see maybe once a month as well, for dinner, drinks, or a motorcycle ride.

    They all bring ideas and experiences into my life I wouldn’t otherwise have, and by maintaining friendships with a wide variety in background and education, it keeps me from becoming too narrow minded or stunted.

    Could I live my life without my friends? Sure. Would I want to? Absolutely not.