And Sublime did a song about playing the same song twice.
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politics @lemmy.world•BREAKING: Trump Says His Border Czar Should Arrest California Governor Gavin Newsom
32·9 个月前This time it’s different. He likes me in a way he doesn’t like the others. They were all toxic but he knows I’m true. They made him be like that. He knows I won’t.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Divorcees of Lemmy, why did your marriage end?
10·9 个月前Yeah. We had a kid so we were more co-parenting than anything. We stayed friendly. Well, after a while. I was pretty hurt but eventually it all passed. And now I’m way better off. Im married again and this time I can tell it’s for keeps. We have our ups and downs but we both want it to last so we each work hard at it. Also, after all the child support, and kid coming of age after some pretty rough teen years, there was some heavy feelings and drama. My wife and I made an agreement that we’d never divorce; there could be a gun and a shovel either way, but no divorce.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Divorcees of Lemmy, why did your marriage end?
691·9 个月前She came from a pretty messed up family. Not as bad as some but there was some pretty gross stuff going on. We dated for a long time, maybe 7 or 8 years. We got married, she was safe. And she started to grow and seek therapy. She grew into herself and it turned out we didn’t love each other anymore.
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politics @lemmy.world•Musk shares footage of Trump partying with Jeffrey Epstein as feud intensifies
2·9 个月前Still wouldn’t be worth it, but it would explain a lot.
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Showerthoughts@lemmy.world•Announcements on the train should refer to "port / starboard side" instead of "left / right in the direction of travel", when pointing to the exits.
9·9 个月前“you are absolutely right.”
*you are absolutely starboard.
Fify
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politics @lemmy.world•Musk shares footage of Trump partying with Jeffrey Epstein as feud intensifies
21·9 个月前I’m m only guessing but I bet she’s only good at faking orgasams.
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politics @lemmy.world•Musk shares footage of Trump partying with Jeffrey Epstein as feud intensifies
52·9 个月前It’s real. To be fake it would take professional wrestling levels of acting ability. And do you really think either of these two has that?
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Showerthoughts@lemmy.world•What is the cutoff distance when you point and say [thing] is "here" or [thing] is "there"?
5·9 个月前If I can hit it by softly lobbing a rock at it, it’s here. Farther than that but I can still see it, it’s there. Out of sight it’s over there somewhere.
I’m not sure this is really from 1955. The Adidas the dude on the left has on is showing a style of outsole that, while could be found in the early and mid '50s, wasn’t mass-produced until 1959 or even 1960. He’d have to have been an Adidas rep or known someone really high up in the company. And frankly I doubt that is the case here. He would have to have either been living in Germany or close to someone that was. And if the later is the case, international shipping would have been rather difficult. And while I’m not decrying his stylistic choices of dress, I am skeptical that a high ranking Adidas professional would have been accepted if this were the look they came to work with.
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politics @lemmy.world•BREAKING: Elon Musk Calls For Trump to Be Impeached
10·9 个月前Even if it was pretend to start with they’re both so sensitive and need to be right, it’ll turn into a real fight soon enough. But I agree, neither is clever enough to pretend this. For that you need professional wrestling level acting skills.
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You Should Know@lemmy.world•YSK that after leaving british politics, Margaret Thatcher became a lobbyist for tobacco companies
46·9 个月前But after that she died. Not a total wash, but it was the best thing she ever did.
TRaSh 80 squad in the house. My uncle was a nerd and gave it to me thereby fostering my inner nerd. 2 floppy drives of goodness.

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Explain Like I'm Five@lemmy.world•ELI5: What the heck is linux?English
14·9 个月前You know how a lot of computers use windows? And a lot are macs? And there’s a difference between the way you have menus and apps and stuff? Linux is a third way to use your computer. But there’s a lot of versions of it. It doesn’t matter what kind of computer you put it on either. New, old, windows, Mac, mini computers, old laptops. Linux is simply another way to use your computer. It’s really cool if you’re into that kind of thing.
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politics @lemmy.world•Trump says he's not 'chickening out' on trade: 'It's called negotiation'
35·9 个月前Lol.
Give me what I want.
No.
Yes.
No.
Fine.
This concludes our one man show of Art of the Deal. Thank you for coming and remember to tip your server.
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Games@lemmy.world•What are some good cooperative shooters? Hidden gems?English
2·9 个月前Yeah. My kids and I play this together. It’s a lot of fun. It’s not as thinky as some other games but for a quick hour or two, it’s a blast.
Backing into parking spots is some cop shit. I learned really early in to not buy, uh, things, from people that backed into spots. They’re cops ready to pull out and chase you.
Nope. Sorry but you’re just wrong. “Han shot first” implies Greedo shot second. And he most certainly did not. Han shot, Greedo died. Green fucker with finger suckers didn’t even get a shot off.
This week it’s Dracula From Huston.


As long as you were true to yourself and didn’t pretend to be someone else, you did nothing wrong. All you can ever do is be honest with the people you love. It’s up to them to decide if they want to be with you (the same way you get to decide if you want to be with them). It sounds like you tried and she just didn’t want to be with you. I don’t mean that in a cruel way. It’s just how things sometimes go.
Sometimes people grow apart. Time will heal, yes but for now, you’re grieving. You lost a friend. It will take time to let that go and for you to move on.
Frankly, it sounds like she meant more to you than you did to her. That’s her loss. Stand tall, be proud of yourself that you could give yourself to someone, and that you were honest and open. Go and do that again and again until you find someone that is honest enough with themselves to be as vulnerable with you as you are them.
Don’t t think of this as a failure or defeat. Think of it as part of a process. Turn the page and start a new chapter.